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Curiosity is the Plug: How Your Sisterhood Can Light You Up

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Hey sis,

Being curious is always talked about as if it is a bad thing, but it's part of the secret formula for levelling up. If you don't wonder about things, you won't get out there and explore - and exploring is how we learn, Chom.

And when you’ve got a strong sisterhood to back you? That's clutch!

What is Curiosity?

It's the desire to explore things, sis. Desire seems like a strong word, neh? But legit - it's a need you can't shrug off. I bet you have heard the saying "Curiosity killed the cat!", but I don't believe that. I think it made the cat wiser. That little voice inside that goes, "But what if...?"

It’s about being brave enough to say, "I wanna know more."

Like, think of all the chats you have had with me. If you never had the courage to reach out, we wouldn't have been able to talk about the ins and outs of all the issues that sistas face, right? You were curious and you put yourself out there - and now you've got the facts. And the facts give you choices - informed choices.

Why Your Tribe is the Real MVP

Having the space to make choices from a place of knowledge is such a privilege and you deserve it. That's why having a community that allows you to be curious is so empowering, chom.

Throughout history, women have created their communities, to keep safe. In these meetings, they would share ideas, wisdom, and solutions. It’s in our DNA, Chom. But today, it’s easy to feel like we’re supposed to figure everything out on our own.

Spoiler alert: you don’t have to.

Sisterhood isn’t just about having people who’ve got your back (though, obviously, that’s gold babes). It’s also about creating a space to explore, ask questions, and dive into all the “what ifs” that life throws your way.

How to Build Your Crew

If you’re sitting there thinking, “Big Sis, I don’t even have a group,” don’t stress. Building a sisterhood doesn’t have to be complicated. Here’s how you can start:

  1. Find Like-Minded peeps: Look in places that match your energy—online groups, community spaces, or even that fitness class you’ve been putting off.
  2. Create a Safe Space: Set up a WhatsApp group or plan regular meetups where everyone feels heard and respected. No judgment, just vibes. Make sure the spaces you join are moderated and safe, and be mindful about sharing personal details.
  3. Keep it Curious: Share ideas, ask questions, and lean into the stuff you’ve been too shy to talk about.
  4. Celebrate Each Other: Big wins, small wins, even the I-got-out-of-bed-today moments—hype each other up like it’s a national holiday.

Curiosity as Your Superpower

To sum up, gal: when you’re curious, you grow.

And when you’ve got a sisterhood cheering you on, that growth feels limitless. Build your circle. Lean into your curiosity. And watch how everything changes when you’ve got the right people around you.

And remember, I am always here for you,

Big Sis